If you feel that you are being pulled in 500 different directions, then there's a good chance that you haven't got active life and business boundaries in place.
It's time to stop allowing your business to eat into your personal life, to stop allowing others to dictate when and what you do, and it's time you get paid what you are worth and put a hold on those freebies!
By having active boundaries, your life will start to flow better and you will reduce the temptation of becoming a doormat for others to walk on!